Word to the Wise
Friday, January 8, 2010 - Christmas Weekday
[1 John 5:5-13 and Luke 5:12-16]The report about him spread all the more, and great crowds assembled to listen to him and to be cured of their ailments, but he would withdraw to deserted places to pray. [Luke]
For nearly 18 years one of my ministries has been to preach retreats for priests. These priests are mostly diocesan clergy and I am a member of a religious order (Dominicans). Yet, what I have to offer seems to be well-received and I find the experience to be moving as I listen to the stories of the men. They are required by church law and their bishop to make one of these group retreats at least every other year (and a "private one" in the "off year"). For some of them it is difficult because they are so inmeshed in their ministry as pastors that they begrudge any interruption. For others it is the only time they are with the other priests of the diocese. I am much aware that a lot of ministry between priests occurs on these occasions, so I do not impose some heavy rule of silence. What I do try to remind them is that even Jesus made a point of taking time to pray "in a deserted place." The annual retreat for some of these priests is the only time many of them do take time off! I know one couple whose Christmas gift to one this year is a retreat for married couples. I've known other spouses who have given their husband/wife a weekend retreat as a birthday gift. I do applaud these gestures of marital generosity, but I also urge priests, married couples and all to think in terms of that "deserted place" on a daily basis. Since I often stay at the homes of my married friends who have small children, I know that the "deserted place" is not easy to find! Yet, having been a pastor with the demands of a parish (which are often like those of small children) I know that I could not have survived the experience without the support of daily prayer and taking retreat time (as well as time to talk to friends). Why should I think I'm stronger than Jesus and can do without the daily contact with the source of all my strength? One way I suggest to friends is to think of prayer like brushing one's teeth. We wouldn't leave home without doing that, and we know from visits to the dentist that if we fail to brush we are going to pay dearly! Good spiritual "hygiene" is not just a nice and pious thought. It is a necessity. AMEN
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