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     It is not an easy task to bring someone back from a straying path.  But the Letter of James this morning offers a powerful incentive.  One may save one's own soul and atone for "a multitude of sins."  But how to do this?  That is what stops a lot of folks in their tracks.  The contexts and issues can be so diverse as to daunt many who are concerned about a friend whose life-style or belief do not seem in accord with Christian, and in particular, Catholic, faith.  I can only offer some broad suggestions that I hope will be helpful.

     Consistent practice of one's own faith in a joyful way is a powerfully attractive method.  It is possible that the "straying" person had a bad experience with a priest or congregation, or grew up in a family where Catholicism was a grim, sin-obsessed reality.  A second suggestion is to approach with care and interest (non-judgmentally) so that one may be informed of the history of the other before offering correction or, better yet, the "way back."  The Gospel According to Matthew offers a possible model. [Matt. 18:15-17]  A third suggestion is to know one's faith and share it in a compassionate way.  Those who think fear of hell is a better motivator than desire for heaven do not know the gospel well.  Last but not least, pray always for the straying folks.

     In my ministry of preaching parish missions, I encounter many senior citizens who are worried about their children and grandchildren, who are not going to church or whose lifestyles are destructive or contrary to the faith.  They have learned that lecturing and threats are unpersuasive, to put it mildly.  The Letter of James offers an incentive to reach out in a hopeful and loving way.  I offer them the suggestions I have mentioned and I remind them that it takes time and patience.  God will do God's part and we need to do ours.  AMEN